Much as it is still for the stage, it is a depiction of real life. Society unfairly blames wives for not bearing children yet it could be a man's problem, or both.

In other scenes, Shikwekwe comes off as wiser and older. With a balding forehead and relaxed dressing as if there is no hurry in Africa, he quips this to Sammy, " Save a brother before he saves you first".

Like all good thing's, what's saved for last is indeed the prime piece. Sammy refuses to be a simp of being relegated to "just friends" corner after Fari chose Mzee Baraza over him. He rightly argues that a lot has happened and that, "we can't be friends again". There are many things that can't be reversed. 

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It shows how polygamy tramples on the rights of women. Men don't obtain consent from first wives when they want to marry a second or a third wife. Besides, it remains a secret to the one being married as number two.

The collusion web is wide and deep as Fari's mother "blessed" the new union. It is a pathetic situation full of tension and suspicion. 

Elsewhere, ladies are getting their mouths back. They can katia men they are crushing on. Tamara is trying to bag Mr Sammy Kioko. The bad thing with being a celebrity is that you will never know it's prank or it's real. Because the pull factor may be money not love.

One major outdated aspect about today's parents is that they underestimate the intelligence of their children. Mama Karimi bullies Ms Fari to go back to Mzee Baraza, a rich mbaba whose only claim to his second attempt at marriage is a fat wallet.

As Andrew posits, if you're not happy, get out of that union. Even if you signed a contract. Tear it up.

Now in its third episode, Fari is already battling love and its drought.  Having been subjected to a forced marriage courtesy of her mother's wishes, she has never been happy. This included her rushed wedding and a depressing honeymoon that she admits thus: There is no fun in it.

Tamara is a friend she confides in. She said that she was married a second wife in order to please her parents. It was a forced marriage.

What turned to be a major highlight for Mzee Baraza and Fari's arranged marriage is Sammy's attendance. Sammy miscalculated. That's why he is rightly reprimanded by Faris mother Mama Karimi to have used common sense and skipped an invitation to attend the wedding given it is in public domain that the pair are former lovers. 

Time doesn't heal here. It makes things worse. See you next Friday to see if Fari will cope with the Susana's stares.

Mr Baraza, with all his ostentation, glitz and glamour, failed to impress Ms Fari. Looks like the arranged marriage was designed to fail. 

It's Baraza who dismissed other men's cars as toys while promising heaven to Fari. He is himself languishing in matrimonial hell, a day after the pair was attached with so much optics but little depth of love.

YES I DO is another of Sammy Kioko's productions. It is largely same script different cast. But what is quite telling is a father's love for his daughter. Mzee Mike noted very early that Fari doesn't love Mr Baraza. She was not happy. Losing Fari to Baraza is too harsh a fact to tolerate. "Fari is the only thing I have", he remembers.

As for Sammy, the haunting memories flashing of better days gone is what keeps his gaze fixed and eyeballs dilate. Having lost Fari, he resolves to go low key and search himself. "I know things will be fine", says he. Another man down in the name of love.

Men should remember that not everything they see under skirt that they should hustle "to eat".It is important for them to control their sexual desires.

The notion that men should control their sexual urges is rooted in the idea of personal responsibility, respect for others, and the promotion of healthy relationships and societal norms. While it's essential to recognize that both men and women experience sexual desires, the focus on men controlling their urges often stems from historical and cultural narratives surrounding masculinity and power dynamics.

Advocating for men to control their sexual urges is a call for accountability and respect for boundaries. In any interaction, consent is paramount. Men (and everyone) should understand and respect the boundaries and autonomy of their partners. This involves recognizing cues for consent and understanding that any sexual activity should be mutually desired and consensual.

Additionally, controlling sexual urges can contribute to the prevention of harm, both physical and emotional. Acting impulsively on sexual urges without regard for consequences can lead to regret, harm, and even legal ramifications such as accusations of sexual assault or harassment. Learning to manage and regulate one's impulses is an essential aspect of maturity and emotional intelligence.

The statement "sex is sweet but there is poison between the legs" is a provocative metaphorical expression that encapsulates the complex and often contradictory nature of human sexuality. While it may seem extreme, there are elements of truth to be explored within it.

Firstly, let's dissect the sweetness of sex. Human sexuality is a fundamental aspect of our existence, capable of bringing immense pleasure, intimacy, and connection between individuals. The physical act of sex releases endorphins and other feel-good hormones that can induce feelings of euphoria and relaxation. It can deepen emotional bonds and foster a sense of closeness between partners.

However, alongside this sweetness, there is indeed a metaphorical poison that lurks between the legs. This poison represents the potential risks, dangers, and consequences associated with sex. Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are a stark reality, with some posing serious health risks if left untreated. Unplanned pregnancies can also result from unprotected sex, leading to significant life changes and responsibilities.

Moreover, the "poison" between the legs symbolizes the potential for emotional turmoil and psychological harm that can accompany sexual encounters. Intimate relationships can be fraught with complexities, including jealousy, betrayal, and heartbreak. Casual sex, while enjoyable for some, can also leave individuals feeling empty or used if not approached without care and respect.

Beyond the physical and emotional risks, there are societal and cultural implications to consider. Throughout history, sex has been a source of power, control, and oppression. It has been used as a tool for exploitation and domination, particularly against marginalized groups such as women and LGBTQ+ individuals. Sex serves as a reminder of the systemic injustices and inequalities that pervade our sexual landscape.

In conclusion, while sex undeniably has its moments of sweetness and pleasure. It would be remiss to ignore the metaphorical poison that accompanies it. This poison represents the risks, dangers, and complexities inherent in human sexuality, from physical health concerns to emotional vulnerabilities and societal pressures. Acknowledging and navigating this duality is essential for fostering healthy, fulfilling sexual experiences and relationships.

Never should anyone be too fast to judge from a few cases that have surfaced. Personally, I have faced a lot of discrimination severally starting from my dress-code, walking style to my personal conduct with people but I soldier on regardless keeping in mind the purpose of my art and how impactful it can be to the society.

Classifying models under one umbrella of negativities isn’t something to be clapped for but to be scrapped off completely.

I purposely attended Mr. /Miss Embu university beauty pageant and I was convinced that there is much talent hidden in  individuals, ladies full of creativity, gents with capacity and ability beyond admiration. It was an extravaganza to emulate among many that I have attended.Any parent witnessing his or her child showcasing could confidently say he or she raised an icon for the society.

A week later, the crowned winners of the beauty pageant visited a children's home to give back to the community, an act of kindness and bravery that was admired by many. The crown owners couldn’t hold back their skills as they showcased their eye catching smile and turns in front of the needy young souls. Brightened smiles of the young ones was worth to watch as they also tried to engage in the cat-walking as they vowed to be models in the future.It was a day that could stick in their young minds instilling another goal they set to achieve.

Projects that our beauty and brains models are undertaking all over the country is a lot to mention, from cleaning various towns in Kenya to planting trees for the sake of our climate. This is something that everyone should be proud of.

I am a face of Chuka University; a prophetic university, and every day I think of how I will make Chuka University and the community around a better place through the art of fashion and modelling. And there is no resting till it’s done.

However, there is no rose without thorns. There have been few cases about models that have misused their crowns and used their influence to release explicit content and pornography. It’s so unfortunate. Various modelling agencies have put in measures to control such misconducts. It’s something that needed to be addressed and eradicated as soon as possible and we are happy to say that actions taken will handle such cases appropriately.

Beauty pageantry has its own challenges yet to be understood by the community. Starting from limited opportunities for diversity to low pay in the case of upcoming models who are trying to establish themselves to be super models. Sometimes their investments goes in vain as the industry has fake promoters and corruption. These are among major problems enough to kill a king's or queen's dream in the making. It’s time for the community to stand with models and promote the art of fashion as positive give back of models to the community is outstanding.

The loss of her parents in a car accident left Lola feeling lost and alone. Without support from her extended family, Lola found herself on streets grappling with poverty. Despite the hard knocks she faced, Lola refused to give up hope. It was during cold winter night that she made up a decision that would change her life forever.

Every morning, she would go and sought for help from local shelters and support services embarking on a journey of self discovery and recovery. With the little she found, she managed it and ensures life continues. This was until when she met a stranger on the road who decided to give her drive to his home.

When they arrived at his home, Lola noticed that the stranger was a king. "Thank you God and I believe my life will change from today," Lola said to herself. Lola shared her story to the family how she has been taking care of herself since her parent's death.

From her story, the king welcomed her and allowed her to be part of the family members. Lola could not believe the kindness she was shown by the king. She was trained house chores, do's and don'ts and all that she was willing to do. Her hard work inspired the king and surprised her with a job and a car that was to ease her movement and ensures her life was complete.

Today, Lola stands as a beacon of hope and inspiration for others who may be facing similar challenges. Through her resilience and determination in the king's palace, she has not only overcome adversity but has also found purpose and meaning in her life.

Lola continue to inspire those around her. She reminds us all that no matter how dark the night may seem, there is always a glimmer of hope on the horizon. 

It has led to online hate speech which can stay online for a long time in different formats across multiple platforms which can be linked repeatedly . We’re supposed to learn to be polite and civil in the society  but what we have right now is a situation where a number of role models are acting the opposite of that and by watching it ,we vicariously feel it and our own attitudes and behaviours change as a result. 

Digital nastiness has instilled bad behaviours in children and its affecting children. What’s affecting kids is their mistrust of grown-ups who are behaving so badly.Social media satisfies a human need for connection where users bond over common interests and establish digital relationships with their favourite public figures following and commenting on their lives just like they do their  friends.

Social media is an atmosphere devoid  of the social cues that mitigate behaviour in real life whereby when violating social norms in person there’s immediate feedback from others through body language and tone of voice.Digital nastiness  poses a cruel and humiliating posts which often have become an instant hit online.Young people who may be the most plugged in are getting mixed messages as they form their moral concepts.

In the contemporary digital age,social media has become an integral part of teenagers' lives, profoundly influencing their behaviours, attitudes and perceptions.This explores the multifaceted influence of social media on teenagers, encompassing both its positive and negative ramifications and proposes strategies for fostering a healthy relationship with digital platforms.

Social media platforms offer teenagers unprecedented opportunities for connectivity and communication,enabling them to stay connected with peers, family and global communities.

Instant messaging,video calls and social networking sites facilitate the exchange of ideas, support networks and cultural exchanges,fostering a sense belonging and inclusivity.

Social media serves as a digital canvas for teenagers to express their identities, interests and creativity through posts, photos and videos.

However, the pressure to create a perfect online persona can lead to self comparison, identity crises and the reinforcement of unrealistic beauty standards affecting self esteem of the well being.Influence on social and cultural norms where teenagers are highly susceptible to the influence of social media influences, celebrities and peer groups shaping their attitudes, behaviours and consumption patterns.Trends,challenges and viral content propagated through social media can both reflect and perpetuate societal norms, stereotypes and ideologies influencing teenagers perceptions of social issues and values.

Mental health and well being are affected whereby excessive use of social media has been associated with various mental issues including anxiety, depression and social isolation.Cyberbullying, online harassment and the fear of missing out contribute to heightened stress levels and negative psychological outcomes among teenagers.

Social media has greatly led to addiction and distraction whereby the addictive nature of social media platforms characterized by endless scrolling, notifications and likes can lead to compulsive behaviours and reduced productivity.

Excessive screen time and digital distractions may interfere with academic performance, sleep patterns and real life social interactions exacerbating the detrimental effects of social media on teenagers' well being.

Social media exerts a profound influence on teenagers shaping their social interactions, self perceptions and mental health while offering unprecedented opportunities for connectivity, self expression and cultural exchange, social media also poses significant challenges including cyber bullying ,addiction and negative psychological outcomes which can be of greater effect.

Tucked away at the outskirts of Embu town in Manyatta constituency the University of Embu was awash with cultural lovers, majority students, after the institution was transformed into extravagant exhibition of cultural music, local dances ,spoken word and other rich cultural practices.

The stage was opened with are meticulus cultural wedding by the students from Cushite community in the school with students and officials from institution watching in awe as the play went on .

"Wow. This is how Cushites traditionally marry? It's so nice I might consider looking for my Cushite girl to marry when that day comes. I am impressed and certain with such kind of marriage there is alot of love," said one student as the play went on.

While addressing students during the official opening of the event,the Deputy Vice Chancellor in charge of Academic, Research and Extension Prof Kiplagat Kotut said cultural festival in the institution promotes rich and diverse cultural values of the region's tribes.

"The theme for this event is nurturing talents for cultural integration, culture is bottom way of life of people in any society. Culture makes us unique and gives us a sense of identity," said Kotut.

He urged students to utilize well their rich cultural practices through presentations and embrace their culture.

Further, he stated that the event is among the important activities which have been included in the school calendar and will be staged on annual basis.

Collins Kiprop who is the president of the University of Embu student srganization lauded the university management for organizing such an event saying that it cultivated cultural diversity.

Kiprop urged students not to fear showcasing their cultural practices as this gives them a sense of where they belong.

Ve Maisha Angi is Maima's newest release that was out while we ushered in the New Year 2024.

A review by MWINGI TIMES ENTERTAINMENT shows that many fans laud Maima for his high quality productions. Unlike many other Benga singers, Maima puts a big investment in his voice, sound and optics. 

There is also a design about scene choice and execution. Jacinta Musyoka declares that she can't get enough of Maima. "Can't get enough of it... This is on top of our Kamba pride", she comments on Maima's official YouTube channel.

@userjx concurs that there is no other life to live except this. What do you think?

This last episode of MEN CAN LIE is both conciliatory and revealing that all good things are brief. Kaa ukijua Abbie was forgiven but her ills are still remembered as the one who led to Naomi and Sammy splitting.

"Sammy lied to me that he was a pilot. I am bored. I am deeply sorry. I apologize", said Abbie. 

Petite and spotting swift steps in agility, Naomi organizes to go and visit Sammy in hospital. But not before declaring that he belonged to her past and should stay there. "I have suffered enough", she laments.

Sammy's doctor diagnosed him with anxiety disorder having being triggered by his cheating sprees with  Abbie and Naomi.  He recommends peace of mind and a "good diet", whatever that is.

Alas! All this was a plot and a ploy to bring back Naomi to the fold. Sammy wakes up from the hospital bed he was lying. Men can lie. Indeed. 

"Kazi safi. Lazima ningerudisha bibi na hiyo style. Si tutoke na wewe ndiyo ikae kama niko mgonjwa cha ukweli!?", he suggests to his doctor.

Curtain.Respect. Until next time. 

Cheers!!!

The song has translation subtitles from Swahili to English in order to cater for the international audience as Kioko's multilingual audience can attest. He is based in the United States.

However, in the hurry to translate, the editor made some glaring mistakes such as misspelling the words "surround" and "guard". However, this doesn't dilute the immense blessings that touch the souls of listeners.

Fellow minister Stephen Kasolo concurrs that if it were not due to God's grace,  his enemies would have finished him. " Glory to God. Kama sio Mungu maadui wangenimaliza.. oooh this is so powerful.", he said after watching Neema song by Ev Danny Kioko.

In a pinned message to his supporters on his YouTube channel, Danny said Neema's message was meant to inspire them to keep trusting God "and lay all your hopes in Him. Psalms 125.1", he ends.

Now, Okumu is feigning and faking compassion to excuse Douglas to "take all your time in the world" to attend to a bedridden Mr Kioko.

Such is life. Those you are willing to be killed for their survival would never take a bullet for you. Life's contradictions.

But Naomi's advice in all this fast phased digital era to Mercy is terse and still firmly reassuring: Put yourself first. Life must move on.

While we're are not told what caused Sammy's hospitalization, it is what you get for antagonizing a former powerful manager and cheating while swapping Abbie and Naomi without care. Poor planning and forgetfulness made him be caught.

Interesting how Naomi will manage Abbie who displaced him earlier as Sammy's better option. Perfect time to revenge. It's long since someone cried and cursed. See you here next week EP 14.

But according to what we have seen, it appears Abbie is hotter than Naomi since she is being chased by both Boss Okumu and his former staff Sammy. It is Abbie who made the company lose staff and going by her carnage, she will also make Mercy and Shikwekwe break up. 

Shikwekwe is battling heeding loyalty to his friend Sammy and loving his wife Mercy. But MT ENTERTAINMENT sides with Douglas on this since secrets are meant to remain secrets. Shikwekwe is under no obligation to tell his wife that his friend is cheating on her friend. Because three is a crowd and he better minds his own business. 

After all, he is praying and fasting for the friend to change his cheating ways. One answer to his prayers is Mr Kioko was busted.

It would have been worse. 

The twelfth episode settles one lingering paradoxical dilemma that when loyalty and love are on the line, save loyalty and love will take care of itself.

See you 13. Jinxed. Friday 10am on YouTube.

While Naomi is not exactly revenging, she cries so much for our sympathies. But we don't control the levers. 

This eleventh episode blows a cover to a best kept bro's code. That a man's best friend knows his friend's cheating partner. Shikwekwe, though working with Naomi, know that Sammy was cheating with Abbie but never told her. At her cost. Of course.

Next time you see a bro's best friend, just know that he knows next. That you're now.

But still, Sammy's blunder in apologizing is that although his rose was red, it was not romantic. Plus of course, he was stingy. He came casually and knocked. With all his wrong moves, he was best advised to up his generosity because there was no charity at home yet he was asking for forgiveness. He is on his way out. Forgotten.

But Vuusya Ungu's is no stranger to controversy and is used to issuing unpalatable statements in his lyrics which admittedly, are popular especially with the youth.

While it is a natural human feeling to nurse betrayal after a nasty break 💔 up, Vuusya's approach to clean content is brought to sharp focus especially his description of what will happen to Nthoki who he accuses of framing him for stealing cash.

Same fate will befall those who stole his guitar 🎸 in Garissa.

Is he insecure?

Being a successful man makes man get lots of hard time choosing the person to settle down with. Pilot Sammy Kioko just crashed his romantic plane. It had three casualties on board, him, Abbie and Naomi. 

If he was to be believed, his heart is beloved to Naomi not Abbie.  Men and Women can lie. Shikwekwe, like other boys in any man's inner circle, knew who was fooling whom.

One enduring lesson for all this is not to let your boss know your residence. That's why Mr Okum arrived unannounced scattering Sammy's plan. A former boss, even. 

But it is the olive branch extended that does not seem honest. "The door behind you is open", said   Okum welcoming back Sammy after he quit. 

When two interests are at stake, a business decision has to be made, however unpopular. In all lies, these men's relationships are shaky due to them relying on convenience and short term gratification. It's a thankless job.

We in MWINGI TIMES ENTERTAINMENT are not convinced that indeed  Naomi moved on. She has some feelings for Sammy. She misreads him severally. She thinks he is jealous of her getting a new job or that he and Shikwekwe are poor in taking instructions.

Episode 8 of Men Can Lie series makes for a disturbing watch. Especially towards the end where Naomi's face is full of dripping tears as she begs Sammy to not resign yet he did just that already. Were it Douglas, his ears would listen.

Suffering together brings former lovers together. Sammy apologized not to be taken back by Naomi but to do the right thing. Do ex's say sorry in real life!!??! Wake up to reality of heartache and the carnage which is dating field in Kenya.